By: VWB Charles H. Tupper
This question is asked by those who are not yet freemasons and often by those who have been in Lodge for some time. This question is often a difficult one to answer. We know that we enjoy being Masons but do not know how to explain this.
Before we can we need to understand that the number one thing that people ask about any organization in which they may become involved is: “What’s in it for me?” This is one of the things that is always the same in life. No one wants to become involved in something unless they benefit from it. This question must be answered because if we do not know what we want and can obtain from the organization then nothing else matters.
- If each of us thinks back to when we petitioned the Lodge we will find that there are striking similarities in the reasons that we did so. Some of these are:
- Many of our male relatives were Masons and it was the family thing to do.
- Many of the men we worked with and associated with were masons.
- People that we admired and respected were masons and we wanted to emulate them.
- We wanted to belong to the most respected fraternity in the world.
- We researched the aims of the Fraternity and wished to become part of it and learn with like minded men
Freemasonry affords men the opportunity to be with others who have the same interests. These men support one another. This applies, not only to the activities of the Lodge, but also, to the activities of daily life. The first degree teaches that we should “Promote each others welfare and rejoice in each others prosperity.” When brothers meet away from the Lodge at an impromptu gathering we see much of this type of activity. The friendliness and genuine feeling we have for one another is evident at these affairs.
Freemasonry is one of the few places that we can gather in confidence that we will leave with all that we arrived with. An example that is easily understood on this subject is that we would never take advantage if one of our ladies leaves her purse unattended or one of us loses his wallet. They are never bothered and if a freemason finds them they are quickly returned intact.
How many places can this occur in todays world? Not very many. We are selective and do not, knowingly, accept any man who would take advantage of others.
The teachings of Freemasonry afford the member a better chance to live a happy life, with his chosen mate, without joining the ranks of the throw away spouse society. We learn how to work through our tough times and make our lives better and more productive.
If disaster should befall us we can turn to our fraternity in the hope that help will be given. If financial aid is needed there are avenues open to the membership that are not available elsewhere. The Lodge will help to the best of its ability. Occasionally, one of our widows will need assistance. All she needs to do is call the Secretary of the Lodge and the Brothers will do all that they are able to do for her. This affords a measure of security for the mates of our departed Brothers.
Freemasonry does not promise anyone any kind of aid or financial assistance but the membership cares about the welfare of one another. freemasons feel good when they can help.
These are some of the things about Masons that make them different from members of many other fraternal organizations. These things are good to know but most of these are peripheral to what and who we are.
Freemasonry is a story of life. It carries joy, heartache, failure and triumph. In books one can read its teachings, symbols and ambitions. We do not practice our craft in the dark, but rather in the full light of day. We are required to practice the teachings and love we are taught by the lights of our Fraternity. No greater thing can be said of the Fraternity that that it is an ideal way of life.
No other Fraternity offers the lessons contained within our ritual. Every word and act in our ceremonies carries a lesson to each of us. If we will just open our eyes, hearts, and ears as we are taught to do by the second degree of Freemasonry.
We can study Freemasonry for years and each time we think about the things we see and hear we will find new meaning and inspiriation. Each time this happens we see more of what Freemasonry is and for what it is intended. Great men have devoted many years to the cause of Freemasonry and when their work is finished they have realized that they have only begun to see the light and that they have only started to uncover the truths contained within our ritual. I do not believe that any man has fully understood all of the lessons that it teaches.
The meaning of being a Mason rests in education and character forming. While it may be accepted as an innermost desire, followed by obligations that makes us members, yet in a larger sense, a man is never a Freemason until he truthfully and loyally lives up to his obligations. He cannot do this until he understands them and begins to learn their scope and meaning.
There is something inherently good about being a Mason. Freemasonry has stood through the years with the shining light of its membership as a beacon to the world. The greatness of the fraternity is not due to secret teachings, mysteries, or deeds. It is due to the lessons taught to its members by its ritual and the comfort, inspiration, and enlightenment brought to all who will study it.
Through this study men learn more about how to live up to the obligations that they have taken when they became members of the Fraternity. They learn to better control their passions, prejudices, angers, and tongues. The Freemason is different than most of the people around him for he has the lessons of the Fraternity within him as he walks through life. He must truly learn who he is and what he is on this earth for.
Freemasonry offers comfort to those who sorrow, hope for those who despair, counsel for those who err, and joy and contentment to all who genuinely practice it. The philosophies of the Fraternity provide a simple, but profound, solution to the problems of human relationships. It is accepted that it is a way of life to the Master Mason who is interested enough to appraise and value what is his, and his alone, simply because he is a Master Mason.
Freemasonry has a solid foundation in unchanging principles. It is an excellent training ground for ethical living and moral behavior. The true Mason’s word is his bond. What he says, he means. He practices fairness and honesty in all his dealings.
There are three kinds of honesty practiced in this world. Cash register honesty, business honesty and personal honesty. The Master Mason makes no distinctions. He only knows one honesty. That is the lesson taught by all religions: Do unto others as you would that they do unto you. This makes the Mason different from most people in this world. He is respected and revered by those around him. It matters not whether he is a maintenance worker or the president of the company. the actions are the same.
This is important to the Mason as the world around him has no clear sense of purpose or firm spiritual foundation. To many people, the Mason’s vision of life is ludicrous. These modern times seem to be seeking the lowest common denominator where the only question people want answered is: “What can we get away with?” this society is fast going toward self regulation. Self-seeking is becoming increasingly prominent. Allegiance is becoming secondary to the selfish pursuits of the individual. In other words, society is falling apart.
We see around us high unemployment, people who are worried about holding on to their jobs, shrinking buying power, continual warfare in the streets, commercialized sex, drugs being sold in every neighborhood, crimes of every kind are on the rise, rampant consumerism that works on people to buy things they do not need that put them into debt and homeless people are in every major downtown area. We are living in a throw away society where values count for less and less.
We see people more and more who do not think of the dignity and feelings of others. They have forgotten the virtues of temperance and prudence. These virtues can not be legislated but must be practiced for the good order of society. Good men practice them in Freemasonry.
Justice seems to take a back seat to rights in our society. Without justice our way of life is doomed also. We must get our society back to the basics of doing good to one another and working together to build a better tomorrow.
My brothers, if you listen closely you will hear the good men in our society calling out: “Masonry, where are you?” Freemasonry can help good men to withstand the pressures of our run away society. Freemasonry can help good men to renew the values that are needed to rebuild our society. Freemasonry can help good men to gain the knowledge to make our cities safe again. Freemasonry can help good men to become better men.
Freemasonry teaches that the road to happiness is found in the journey towards perfection of spirit, intellect and soul. Freemasonry teaches men to reach their fullest potential. The Freemason works toward these goals each day of his life. to aid in his journey he studies the book of religion, the history of man, and the philosophy of life. He cares for his family and his church. He puts forth his best efforts for the payment he receives in the workplace. He helps his neighbor and his community and he attends his Lodge so that he may fellowship with others with the same aims and goals.
From the time the Entered Apprentice Mason stands in the Northeast corner of the Lodge and is told that he “Now stands as a just and upright Mason,” he becomes a worker on the building of Freemasonry and a guardian of the foundation stones. As society digs the earth from under the stones of civilization he stands, ever watchful, guarding the foundation of Freemasonry so that the fraternity will always stand tall for what is right and good in the world.
The Freemason is a builder. The building he works on is never finished. With every stone he lays there is another to be shaped and set. We work together as a Fraternity to build a strong building. The more men work and learn together, the better the building. We must impress upon the young men of today that this building is in danger of crumbling from age and may collapse without the labor of their hearts and hands.
We offer them brotherhood, understanding, help, encouragement and moral support. Unless men are properly influenced and guided by principles there is no hope for a brighter tomorrow. Not for society, not for freedom, not for democracy, and certainly not for Freemasonry.
Our fraternity is a bastion of morality. perhaps the last one outside of the secular churches. We have an advantage over them because we cross all religious boundaries and bring together men of every country, sect and opinion in peace and harmony. We enjoy each other and the families of one another. We have family get togethers to promote the togetherness of our Fraternity.
When we were young and going to school, most of us had a circle of friends with whom we did and shared everything. As we grew older and the concerns of the world began to hem us in we became distant from this sharing. Freemasonry affords the opportunity to regain this important part of life. To have friends with whom we can share our innermost secrets without fear of ridicule or reprisal is something that we can not get in most places. We can get it from our Brothers for Freemasonry truly regards the whole human race as one family. As we progress through life with our brothers we find that our lives are richer, better and more fulfilling.
When we put all of these things together we arrive at the bottom line. This is the simple explanation that a Mason is a good man who, by the teachings of the Fraternity, is working to become a better man. And the Fraternity is all the members working, one with the other, toward the same goal.